Busy Blantons

"Sister"

2009-08-12T06:15:00.000-07:00

Today my sister leaves Fresno to start a whole new journey in life. Actually, she's going to a horse show over the weekend, and then heading on to Santa Rosa, but either way she is leaving Fresno. It was hard watching her drive away yesterday knowing that she was going to just be a short drive across town anymore. Although, I'm super excited for her!! She graduated with her degree in Chemistry from Fresno State this year, and starts a 4 month internship as a wine chemist at St. Francis winery. Lucky for her, it's only a short drive from my parents house, so she'll have a place to stay until she finds a more permanent position. I think it's great that she'll start her new adventure with some familiarity. Although, selfishly I am sad to see her go. I'm sad that I won't be able to just call her to hang out. I know that I will still be able to talk to her, and I'll see her, but it's still different. Anyways, I'm cheering her on and wishing her lots of success!

Just a thought

2009-08-10T11:08:00.000-07:00

Watching my lil man grow has been such a blessing. Although, I'm ready for it to stop now. This weekend I noticed his head is above the couch arm when he is standing, he can now reach for the tops of tables (but not yet getting anything) and he's ready to stand independantly. It's crazy because when I look at how much I have not blogged I realize how quickly he went from my small baby, to an almost toddler. He is so fun and loving! His laugh is contagious, his smile fills my heart with joy, even his cry can make me laugh! I say this because he doesn't cry often and when he does it's usually becuase he's over tired and just won't sleep. You can't help but laugh at the I'm tired so I'm going to just be cranky cry. Why? Not to sure. All I can say is I love being a mama! I love my life.

2009-06-29T15:51:00.001-07:00

Today has been a crazy day! I was reminded that I have a blog, and should use it more, and I agree..but really have such little time on the computer, and the time I do have I am either doing work, or playing on facebook. I sometimes just assume that my picture uploads are enough, but today I was reminded that pictures aren't enough. I was reminded that keeping people up to date on what is happening is sometimes important. I don't call people as much, but not because I don't care, but because time just gets away from me. I have friends that are very dear to my heart, and I really only talk to them a few times a year, and maybe only see them once or twice. Yet, they know I care, and my life wouldn't be the same with out them. So, for friends like Nicole know that I love you, and I think about you, and I value our friendship even though I'm not invovled all of the time.

Today I realized that a long time friendship is over. It's kinda strange to me becuase I have shared so many intimate details of my life with this person. I have friends that I have drifed away from, and she is one of the them, but at the same time she fell in the category above. Kinda, we actually talked way more then a few times a year, but that is besides the point. I write this because it's such a weird thing for me. There is this part of me that feels like someone has died. How do you just stop being friends...acuaintances even. Really? Do you just delete on their phone numbers, e-mails, etc. How sad is that? "I just delete you." Then there have been times when I have felt this friendship was completely unhealthy, but I am also a strong believer that all relationships evolve. As this person and I "grew apart" I had come to terms that she would be someone I talked to every now and then. She would still be someone I went to visit, and she for certain be on the top 10 people to call when our family grew, or when there was a new stepping stone in my life. She would be always be someone I would have been there for in an emergency. So, it's weird to think that poof...we just hit "delete." Four years ago we had one of our falling outs over how much I valued our friendship. She felt as though I didn't have as much invested as she did. It was always strange to me that decisions I had made always seemed to be a black cloud over us. Yet, today, those decisions were confirmed. I had just as much invested in our friendship, but there was more to consider. I can clearly say I have made the correct decisions. Anwyas, enough ambiguity. I don't want to call this person out over a blog. As a matter of fact if she ever read this blog I wouldn't be posting it. She's never been one to read my blog, even when I did post often. So, this is more of a place for me to somewhat vent, and write out my feelings. Also, I wanted to share with others that real friendships and relations evolve into whatever they may be. I'm just not sure how I feel about being "dumped."

So to my friends and family out there who like to share in my life. I get busy, life changes, but what is my heart remains.

The fault of Facebook!

2009-01-29T12:27:00.000-08:00

Okay, it's been awhile, and I'd like to blame it on Facebook! It has somewhat taken over my small amount of time to blog, and it's so easy. However, some of you have informed that it's not an excuse, so here I am. Not to mention I found away to link my blog to facebook!! :)

Clayton is almost 4 months old and just getting big! He is starting to sleep better, but still very unpredicatable. We've made it though his first cold, but since I now have a cold I am assuming we'll end up with a second one. He's full of giggles and coos, and enjoys playing with his little toys. It's been fun watching him develop his little personality! We're getting ready to give him his first taste of rice cereal next week! So that is all I have time for now, but I promise I will try to get better!

All Smiles!

2008-12-14T18:31:00.001-08:00

This weekend Clayton turned 10 weeks old! The time is flying, and yet it seems like he's been here for so long. Life for me, seems a little more perfect every day. Sure there are nights when he wakes up every two hours, or days I just want to get out, and there all the baby worries, but for really...I just feel like God gives me a new gift every day!

He's growing!

2008-12-05T11:47:00.000-08:00

Make a Smilebox scrapbook

Thank God!

2008-11-26T10:02:00.000-08:00

Sunday we went to church for the first time with Clayton. I bring this up because the service was very touching. It made me think back to last year and how "bitter" I was. The service really talked about all the things I wish I would have heard last year. Basically, Jareds message was called "Troubled Hearts." If you are feeling down about something I encourage you to listen to the feed. It's strange beacuse last year I didn't want to go church. I felt like everytime we went the message was about family, I was surrounded by pregnant women, and I every service turned into me bartering with God. IF ONLY, and "why not me?" So, now I wonder about just how much I didn't listen. So this year I sat and realized there is nothing I feel troubled about, and I thank God every day for that. I write this because there is so much I learned through the troubled times, but that doesn't mean that it made it any easier.

In just a year, I went from confused, hurt, frusterated, and in some cases alone (even thought I am happily married to a wonderful man) to being complete fullfilled, exhausted, tankful, and delighted. I learned that God has a plan that I will never completely understand. I realized that I have control over very little in my life. Pregnancy taught me (or tired to teach me) patience, and selflessness. Motherhood has taught me more of the same. As much as I would love to control the situation, I know that I can't and the harder I try the less control I have.

So I this year, my Thanksgiving isn't just on Thursday. I'm giving thanks every day. Every day I am thankful for God's love, His plan, and the work he has done on my heart!

I'd like to thank my friends who were there to listen through the bad times, and those who rejoiced with me in the good times. I'm thankful that I have family that loves my son and wants to be with him. I'm thankful for those who have guided me in the first few weeks of motherhood, and those who are going to continue being a support system. I'd like to thank my husband for being who he his. For riding the rollercoaster with me, for showing me sanity when I felt insane. (Even if I didn't want to hear it, or see it!)

It's amazing what God has done in our lives. I couldn't have prayed for a better husband, a more precious child, or a better life.

Just to let you know

2008-11-06T09:35:00.000-08:00

Just to let you all know, Clayton weighed in at 10lbs 2oz on Tuesday. It's amazing how fast they grow. We're loving every moment of being a parent..well almost every moment. He's fussy at night, and doesn't like to sleep in his cradle, but we're managing. He're are a few pics of Clayton.

Our Lil Pumpkin!

2008-11-01T10:52:00.000-07:00

Today Clayton is a whole 4 weeks old! It's crazy how fast it went. Here are some pictures of his first halloween!

Make a Smilebox slideshow

The Birth Story

2008-10-15T09:34:00.000-07:00

As I had previously posted sleepless nights and contractions on and off for three days had made me a little batty! The contractions were getting me ready, but they weren't too effective. By Friday morning I had enough. I called the Dr. and asked him to give me something. Really, I was asking if there something that would help me sleep. He was on call at the hospital and extremely busy in his office so he sent me to the hospital to see if I had progressed any since Wednesday. He told me he would talk to me about it after I was checked.

11:45: I went to St. Agnes, and was checked in for an OB check. I was put on the monitors, so I could see that I was having contractions. They weren't really big, or even doing much for that matter, but they were there. When I was checked there had been no progress since Wednesday. I was about 50% effaced and hardly dilated at all! So, the Dr. was on the phone and gave me the option of Ambien or induction. Knowing everything I know about induction it was a hard decision to make. I was "done." I was miserable, annoyed, and anxious. Patience has never been one of my better features. After talking to Clay and my doula, Natalie, I decided to be induced. Why? I knew that if I didn't go into labor on my own by Wednesday we were going to be talking about inducting anyways. Because I had gestational diabetes the size and health of the baby was a concern. So, I had convinced myself that 5 days wasn't going to matter much, and I didn't think I could go on with another 5 sleepless nights, another NST (non stress test) and AFI (an ultrasound where they are checking fluid levels). It was all getting so consuming!

4:30is: Clay brought me all of my "things" and we were ready! Pitosin was started, I was hooked up to the monitors and I had an IV. So, it was all a little more then I had wanted initially, but ultimately I wanted a healthy baby, and I wanted him out! Contractions began but they weren't too bad. I was going to try to this with out any pain medication. Not because I wanted to be super mom, but I didn't want to feel sick from the epidural (as some people do). I was also dead set on no IV meds because they all go to the baby, and I didn't want a "sleepy" baby. So, the beginning stages of labor began.

1:15am: I was in a good place! We had flameless candles out, relaxing music, lights dimmed, and I was in a trance. I was half asleep (most relaxed I had been in days!) and I just rocked from side to side with each contraction. I sent Clay to get some "treats" for the nurses, and I told Natalie I would call her when contractions were bad enough that I needed help. So, I was alone and just really preparing for what was to come. Then there was a pop, and my water broke. This was good that this happened on it's own. I called the nurse in, and Natalie and Clay arrived a few minutes later. Contraction picked up! I used the ball, leaned on Clay, took a hot shower, and had Natalie encouraging me through each contraction.

4:45-5:00am: I was only dilated to a 2! I still had 8 cm to go, and contractions were back to back. I requested the epidural. I knew I needed my body to relax. Epidural was administered and I was a happy girl! We had about an hour of joking with the Dr. and just hanging out. However, it was nap time! I was so relaxed that I was ready to get some sleep! Clay went to take a shower and eat some breakfast. Natalie was hanging out, but I knew I was going to sleep, so I told her to go home, relax and take a nap. Mind you, everyone I have seen get an epidural has been able to sleep, and just ride the ride for the most part.

7:30 am: I called the nurse in. I had sharp pains through my left side! They were getting worse by the minute. The epidural was "falling out." The good news I was dilated to a 4.5! So, epidural #2 was put in. Clay and Natalie were on their way back! No nap for me! The second epidural took relief away from m right side, but I began to feel it on my left. About 45 minutes into it, I felt every contraction, but couldn't move my legs. Contractions continued we tried epidural #3 and nothing. So, it was 12:30 pm on Saturday. I was exhausted, pitosin was flowing, but baby was fine. I was watching the nurse, Natalie, and everyone else in the room. Everyone seemed puzzled and concerned. Turns out there was a suspicion that the baby was face up. This usually makes for a very hard delivery. When I would contract, he really didn't move much, but he looked fine.

12:45pm: The doctor called, and asked how things were going. I was supposed to be dilating a cm and hour. However, with out relaxing I was only at a 5. At this point I was doing everything I could to just get through the contractions. I didn't know how to get myself to relax when I was shaking, throwing up, and bed ridden! I was told that I had two more hours to start dilating. The thought of two more hours was unbearable. It was then that I asked the anestegiologist how long it would take to get the spinal, and asked for my Dr. to come. Now, I need to mention, a c-section had been mentioned for medical reasons such as...I wasn't dilating quick enough, the baby was face up and could potentially not push through, and there was the issue of me being exhausted. I feel like the c-section was the right thing to do. I wanted Clayton to be healthy! That was my primary goal.

2:00pm ish: I was in the OR. Spinal was done. I couldn't feel a thing! Well my body was shaking, so I was trying to breath through to relax. Clay was asked to stand up, and he watched them pull Clayton III out. They held him up for me to see, and Clay followed as they took them to be cleaned up.

2:33pm was the exact time Clay and I became parents. Clay brought him over to me so I could see him. I cried. I had such mixed emotions. I was happy! Yet, I was sad that I couldn't hold him.

3:30ish: I was in recovery, and Clayton was in my arms.

The best part of the c-section: I won't ever go through labor again!
The worst part: Waiting an hour to hold my baby!

He's Here!

2008-10-11T08:08:00.001-07:00

Make a Smilebox photobook

Frusterating!

2008-10-03T03:48:00.001-07:00

It's another sleepless night in the Blanton house. Really, it's the third night in a row that sleep has been scattered! Three nights ago I learned what getting up to go the bathroom every two hours was all about. Then at about 11:00 am on Wednesday I started having cantractions. They seemed to be somewhat regular until around 1:30 and then they started to scatter, and by the time I went to bed, they were gone. I had a Dr. apt at 2:40 and found out they weren't too productive. I am 50% effaced and barely dialated. He did inform me that IF he still hasn't come by next Wednesday that we were going to have to talk about induction. Only because of the gestational diabetes. I'm not real big on induction, but at this point..something has gotta give! Especially since there has been a cycle of sporatic contractions through the day, and sleepless nights. I'm sure it's "God's way of getting me ready" but some sleep would be nice before I HAVE to be up with a baby. Just thought I'd share!

False Alarm: Potential TMI

2008-09-25T05:34:00.001-07:00

Being a first time mom brings up a lot of questions about labor. It's funny because I've been apart of deliveries as a doula, been to my doula classes, read a ton of books, but still not quite sure what to look for or expect. As Clay said last night, I know just enough to be dangerous. So, this leads me to our night last night.

I took a bath yesturday afternoon to just relax and unwind. At around 4:00pm I was out of the bath and putsing around the house again. ARound 6:00pm I walked out to get the mail. I stood outside for about 15 minutes talking to the neighbors. Have I mentioned I love where we live! We have great a great neigborhood! Anyways, so I was standing there and I felt a "wet" sensation, followed by a cramping in my upper right abdomen. When I went inside I checked to see what was going on. My thought, it could have just been bath water..?! However, I walked around the house, felt a little cramping, and had one contraction. At least the way others have explained them. You could see my entire stomach get hard, but the baby wasn't moving around. So, that led me to finish packing my bags, (which have been packed for the most part for a week or so) installing the car seat in Clays car, and left for a labor check. With all that said, I wasn't having regular contractions, and I wasn't 100% sure my water broke. My doula, Natalie, recommended that I go to the hospital to make sure. If my water broke and I wasn't having contractions that could present a problem. So, off we went.

A little before 8:00pm I was put in the triage room, hooked up to the moniors, and waited. It wasn't until almost 9:00pm that they swabbed me to see if it was my water. When the first test came back negative they ordered another test. An hour later, the other test arrived. This test just took longer, but was extreamly painful!! The nurses comment was, "well we have bloody show." NO KIDDING! With pain like that I wouldn't expect much less. Soon after she checked me and I was "a fingertip dialated." However, no sign that my water broke.

At this point Clay and I were just ready to go home! All I wanted was someone to tell me yes or no. I didn't expect to be there for hours. My contraction monitor was showing no sign of contractions, and the babys heart rate was all over the place. He was fine, but they want the baby active on the monitor most of the time. So, they had me lay there until they had better readings. UGH! Finally, around 11:30 I unpluged the monitors and headed to the restroom. My monitors were falling off, and I was ready to just go home. Clay went to tell them my monitors fell off, and the nurse, who was drinking her coffee and chatting away, looked at him and began appologizing for the wait. At this point, I think they just forgot about us! So, we were out of there at 11:45.

For now, no labor, but since the nurse poked and proded I have had continous bloody show. I have an appt. with my Dr. at 11:30 so I will give an update after that.

"The Rules"

2008-09-23T07:28:00.000-07:00

I've had a few people ask me about what is going to take place when I have the baby. Do I want visitors at the hospital? When will we call? How will they know? I do have some of the answers but in all honesty the only way we are going to know how we feel about all of this is to find out when we reach that point.

This is what I do know:
We plan to deliver at St. Agnes. The only way we would end up at Clovis Community is if my Dr. was on call at Clovis. Otherwise, I will be a St. Agnes. I plan to labor as long as I can at home and then go to the hospital. My guess is there will be very little phone calls made durring this time. This will be the last few hours of "alone" time for Clay and I, so I am going to take full advantage of it. During the labor no one besides Clay and my doula, Natalie, will be in the room with me. So, hanging out at the hospital would probably be boring! They have a "waiting room" downstairs in the main lobby. We'll be on the 6th floor, and there isn't a waiting room up there.

These are the visitors rules:
*Visitng hours are from 10am-8pm
*There is a naptime between 1-3pm. IF I have to share a room and the other mom requests this time then no visitors will be allowed during this time.
*All visitors have to be over the age of 12: They will not let children in.
*You check in on the 6th floor. They will give you a little badge.
*They will only allow 3 people at a time in the room, so PLEASE CALL US!

As for when will everyone find out. When you get that phone call. You may not hear from us, but we have a few people to call who will then start spreading the word.

So boring blog, but figured I'd answer the questions, and post "the rules."

Only 3 more weeks until this lil guy is supposed to be here!!

"Doulaing" at home

2008-09-20T07:57:00.000-07:00

This week I was fortunate enough to be a part of a home birth. Since my doula training home births have peeked my curiosity, but not something I've ever been a huge supporter of. However, there was an opportunity for me to doula a home birth. After a lot of consideration I realized that since I was still a doula in training and volunteering my time I could do it. I wasn't "scared" of them, I just didn't know what I thought. My biggest concern was always, "what if!"

Well, this is what I learned. Home births, if done responsibly, can be amazing and extremely relaxing. Here's the story; water broke at 7:00 am but contractions weren't anything big. So, I arrive at 1:30ish and contractions still aren't anything serious. The midwife and I talked different labor techniques over (by the way I learned more about labor and delivery during this birth then any other) and the general idea was that if labor didn't pick up by 7:00 pm she would have to go to the hospital. Reason, hospitals only really give you 24 hours after your water breaks before they consider a c-section. So, we wanted to make sure she had enough time in the hospital to get things moving. At around 3:30 pm mom drank a castor oil cocktail! (3oz castor oil, oj concentrate, & ice) At around 5:00 contractions picked up. Meanwhile, she was able to walk around the house, play with her kids, cuddle with her husband, take walks, and eat light snacks. All of these things you can not do in a hospital. (Especially the cuddle with the hubby part)

The birth took place in her bath tub. There was very little medical intervention. The midwife only checked her once to make sure she was progressing before she entered the water. So, when the time came and she felt like pushing she was encouraged to push. Unlike in a hospital she pushed in a way that felt natural to her. No one was telling her how long to hold the push, or what to do. She just let it happen. The head came out, and she waited for another contraction before she pulled the body out and lifted the baby to her chest.

The baby didn't even really cry. It made a healthy noise, but she was as content as could be. Midwife injected mom with some patosin to make her blot clot and then made sure mom and baby were fine.

During this, I noticed how relaxed mom stayed, and how content baby was when born. It was extremely different. I am still not a home birth advocate, but I will say, I now understand why people like to have their babies at home. I'm much more open minded and secure about being a doula at future home births.

Just thought I'd share..

NST Update

2008-09-16T09:16:00.000-07:00

Since I have gestational diabetes I have to take a few extra precautions with the baby. Besides the boring diet, I will now be going in for Amnionic Fluid checks once a week and non stress testes twice a week. Yesturday was the first for both. The Amnionic fluid test is really an ultrasound. They look and make sure the baby is in the right position, there is enough fluid for him, and they check his heart rate. Apparently these are all concerns when you have GD. It was actually cool seeing an ultrasound at 36 weeks. He's big so it's not like you get a pic of whole body, but he was in the right position. His head is right on my cervix (nice and cozy for me!) and they are guessing he is about 7.5 pounds. This can be almost a pound off, so I'm trying not to think about the weight too much. (This could mean a 9.5 pound baby in a month!) After the ultrasound I went up to labor and delivery. They hook me up to the fetal heart monitor and I just sat and listened to his heart beat for half an hour. Everything looks good, just waiting for him to be ready!

Sunday Comic

2008-09-15T09:50:00.001-07:00

Sundays are usually Church and errand days. We didn't go to church yesturday, but we did make it to Costco, Best Buy, Office Max, and then IHOP for lunch. We are home for maybe 2 minutes and Clay infoms me that there is a hole in my pants. I'm thinking a snag, a small hole....OH NO! This wasn't a hole it was a tear from the middle of my back side to my thigh! We have no idea when this "hole" appeared! Besides the belly, the waddle, and the sheer awkwardness, I gave Fresno something else to look at...my butt! I do want to mention these pants were not tight on me, so it's not like I split my pants!! If that was the case I'd probably in tears. What makes me want to cry is that these were my favorite maternity pants. They were comfy, and fit right. Oh, well...just thought I'd share some Sunday humor.

The last few days

2008-09-03T09:14:00.000-07:00

I sit at home with a box of Kleenex trying to fight the cold I seemed to bring home from Seattle. It's awful! For 8.5 months I have avoided getting sick in any way. Now, I can't seem to be away from the tissue box for more then a few minutes. Having a cold is so extreamly different when you are pregnant! Sleeping was already uncomfortable, but trying to find comfort with a stuffy nose, and a hacky cough is just strange. Everytime I cough I feel like my stomach is going to pop! Strange feeling!

Aside from the complainig, things are good! The room is somewhat organized. Well, it's almost there. It's really just finding a spot for everything and figuring out what else is a bring baby home necessity. His bag is packed, and mine is almost packed! I just have to finish up the ipod music, and a few other little things. We deffinately need to invest in some rechargable battaries for all the baby stuff! It's been fun getting everything ready. I can't wait to meet him!

Baby showers are all over...I'll post pictures soon! Thank you to everyone who was able to come! They were all amazing and fun!

It's raining!

2008-08-28T14:46:00.000-07:00

We've been in Seattle since Saturday afternoon! It has been wonderful! We've walked at least 3 or 4 miles each day, enjoyed the rain and cool weather, and have been able to relax and just have fun. We've enjoyed some of the torist spots like Pikes Market Place..it's a little crazy down there..they throw fish and have a bunch of vendors. We made a stop at the original starbucks. The whole coffee thing here is crazy! I joke about there being a starbucks on every corner at home, but here there really is. WEll...it's everyother corner. Starbucks and Seattles Best Coffee alternate corners. I can't believe they can all stay in buisness. Yes, I know that is what Seattle is known for, but really!!! We also did the underground city tour, walked to the space needle, and spent time just enjoying a different area. Tonight we are going on a dinner cruise.

As for the pregnancy update. A few weeks ago I was diagnosed with gestestional diabeties. It sucks, but I've been good at managing it with out meds. It's been difficult being on vacation..especially around a lot of bakeries..but it's been managable. Everything is fine with the baby, but we'll start doing stress tests at week 36. Just to make sure he's not getting too big, and he's doing well. Other then that everything is the same. Just getting ready for him!

30 Weeks

2008-08-06T08:27:00.001-07:00

4D Ultrasound

2008-08-04T17:50:00.001-07:00

San Diego

2008-07-28T09:27:00.000-07:00

This weekend I drove to San Diego with one of my instructors of a Fit4Baby training. It was a good trip, but an adventure at that! Shawn and I left Friday at 9:45. We took the long way to the freeway (GPS isn't always the way to go) and began our journey. When we talked about driving down I realized we would be in areas that I'm not in often! The Tarzana Armenian Deli was calling my name. So, after a few wrong turns, and a lot of traffic we made it to the Deli to meet my good friend Ernesto for lunch! It was WEIRD! I have to say if there is anywhere that I have lived that I don't miss..it is the San Fernando Valley. In the 45 minutes we sat and ate lunch, we witnessed a prostitute being picked up, two cars almost colliding at a stop sign because one idiot felt it was appropriate to do a strange turn in front of the other car, but we did have a good sandwich! I don't know what makes the sandwich so good! It's simple; turkey, mayo, mozzarella, pepperchinis, avocado, tomato, all rolled up in flat bread. However, this is a sandwich I have not ever been able to duplicate! So, in all honesty it was worth the detour for me. Not to mention it was wonderful seeing a good friend.

So, we journeyed on to San Diego. Following the GPS of course, and sitting in traffic for a good hour and half or so we ended up on a toll highway! Neither one of us had cash on us, so we exit before we have to pay the toll on a mission to find an ATM. So, another detour. We find the ATM and journey back onto out toll road. I would like to mention it was $5.75 for this detour, and I really don't think it saved us an ounce of time!!

Finally at around 6:00pm we roll into oceanside. Find our hotel (with a few wrong turns) and get checked in. The driving wasn't too bad, hips didn't hurt too bad, but my feet were slowly swelling up. Never did I think I would be the owner of Kankles! After putting my feet up for awhile we ventured on down by the ocean. Parked in the parking structure next to the bus stop, there were police men walking around so I didn't feel unsafe, but it was dark. As we looked for a place to eat we passed bar after bar. It was hilarious! Let me mention Shawn is as cute as could be. So, the boys standing in front of the bars see us walking towards them. They see her...do the little look up and down, look at me and turn away! I guess trying to get the pregnant lady into the bar didn't sound so appealing. IF that was all it took to get men to not bother you at bars, I would have bought a pregnancy suit a long time ago!!! So we ate dinner at this little cafe that closed at 9:30, and ventured back to the hotel.

5:30 am...we wake up. I turn the shower on, and it's yellow! The pipes were apparently rusty, or there was some funk in the water that I was clearly not touching! so, no showers for us! Our journey to the training began.

We spent the day at the training...nothing too adventurous happened there...until we were leaving and I discovered I couldn't find my wallet! We went back to the classroom, and it was found! It had fallen out of my bag with a t-shirt! However, it was almost a temporary heart attack! At 6:00 we were debating on making the turn to go to my grandpas for the night or venture back home. We decided to make the trip home. It was a long trip, but at 12:30 we pulled into the garage and had a great nights sleep!!! Now that is something that doesn't happen often.

So all in all it was a good trip. It will make the trip down south this weekend seem much shorter!

26 weeks, 14 to go!

2008-07-09T06:33:00.000-07:00

I'm almost out of my second trimester and getting ready to enter into the third! It is crazy to think about how there is a body growing inside of mine. He is an active lil guy! In most of my books I read that when you are active it usually rocks them to sleep..not this one! He is truly "My Kid." I am preparing the house for lock down, and preparing the neighbors. Doggy doors should be locked unless you want an intruder, and if you see a lil hudini wondering around in a diaper he belongs to us! There are the few of you who have known me since I was a wee lil one, and they will all appreciate that comment! Really, I've been trying to explain that naps are good. If I knew what I knew now I would have slept much better as a child. No one would have to sit at my door wait for me to go sleep, no double locks to keep me from wondering the house at night, I would have let Scott watch TV by his lonslome instead of climbing out of bed before sun up to watch transformers, and some other crazy show that aired at 5:00 am. Sleep is good! Although I'm thiking that this lil guy doesn't agree. When I'm working out, he likes to do jumping jacks with me. When I am training he likes to remind me that I have abs too! (Although they feel much better when there's not a foot kicking them) The rest of his day is spent doing gymnastics! So in 14 weeks...be prepared...I think there will be very little sleep going on in the Blanton household.

Beat the Heat contest!

2008-07-07T14:19:00.000-07:00

Jen Patrick, a friend of mine introduced me to a new natrual parenting blog! They have a contest to win the cloth diapers that we are using! So, if you're looking for a chance to win some cloth diapers follow the link!

Win a Bum Genius 3.0 Starter Kit from Nature's Child - Wholesome Goods for Mothers and Babies

What I do!

2008-07-03T06:48:00.001-07:00

Do I work? Yes. However, it doesn't really seem like work. I am in the process of figuring out what my role is going to be when I become "mom." Currently, I am buisness owner, personal trainer, & doula. Well almost doula. My company is called Movin' Mamas. Under this name I own a franchise called Stroller Strides. I LOVE WHAT I DO! Stroller Strides is a fitness program for moms and moms to be. Really anyone could be apart of it, but the conversations usually pertain to mommy hood, and kids are with moms when they are working out. We don't simply "walk" in the parks. We meet at a park, we do walking and jogging intervals. We use resistant bands to tone and firm, and in the end we work out our abs and core. It's an amazing program and I highly recomment all new moms look into something like this. Not just because I own a franchise here, but because there is a built in community. Transitioning into mommy hood is hard enough. Sleepless nights, wondering if your crying child is alright, finding a place for your spouse in the midst of it all. These are all issues that moms seem to be able to talk through with each other and realize they are not alone. They have advise and suggestions, so hopefully you leave everyday feeling good mentally and physically. Not being a mom yet, I've built friendships that will last a lifetime. These are the girls that encouraged me when we were trying, talked with me through the hard times, and have been great support durring the pregnancy! So, that is Stroller Strides. I teach these classes, but I am preparing to grow and let others teach while I get ready to be a mommy. That doesn't mean I'm not going to be working at all. I have build a personal training studio in the house. I have clients 5 days a week as early as 5:00 am. I will probably maintain this until it's time to have this lil guy. As for being a doula, I am working on my certification. I have one birth down, and two more to go. I will hopefully attend a birth in August...now if I can get one more in July it would be perfect. I need 3 in order to send my packet into DONA. What is a doula? A doula in so many words is an assited labor coach. I could go on and on about this, but I'll leave that for another long winded post. My goal with this is to be able to one birth a month. I probably won't really do much with it until the baby is sleeping through the night, and I find someone I am comfortable calling on a whim to babysit. So, we'll see how it all plays out.
So aside from being a wife, decorator, cook, and being spoiled by my husband. I do work..it's just more of a fun lifestyle then a job.

Week 22 & 23

2008-06-19T14:30:00.000-07:00

I know I've been asking for it, but pregnancy isn't something I just love! The last two weeks I have learned a lot of about "being pregnant."
1) Jumping into a cold lake when you're hot..not such a good idea!
(We went to Santa Rosa Lake, and when I hit the water my legs curled into fetal position, and my stomach was so tight I could hardly breath! Apparently the baby doesn't like cold water much!)
2) Charley Horses or leg cramps aren't just resolved by calcium and potassium. Pointing your toes only makes them worse, and you're supposed to walk them out. How do you walk them out when they come on when you're sleeping! Obviously I'm awake at that point, but I can't just "hop out of bed!" I can hardly roll out of bed!
3) All of the books say that bloody noses are common. What they don't tell you is they can come on with out warning, and they may be fierce! I know carry a box of tissue in my car, and a few in my purse just in case.
4) I always thought pregnant women were really cute. I still do, I just don't think it's so cute on me! For those people who feel sexy when they are pregnant, I'd love to know the secret. This is NOT SEXY or "CUTE"
5) I believe full nights sleep is now something of the past. If it's not the throbbing in the hips, trying to stay comfortable, leg cramps, a numbing sensation though my arms, the need to use the restroom, late night hunger, it's the baby practicing his soccer kicks!

It would probably help if I'd take it easy, but I'm also nesting! There are things that just need to get done!

A Sneak Peak

2008-06-02T17:04:00.000-07:00

When some of my best friends were pregnant I remember thinking they were crazy for the "have to get it done" panic. Well, I guess they weren't so crazy after all. Or now I just joined the crazy club! I've begun the base painting in the baby's room. there is still a lot to do, but I figured I'd give everyone a sneak peak.
Also I wanted to thank my mom and dad for purchasing the furniture for our lil guy! It is beautiful and we love it! I love the idea of the cribs converting to beds now. He'll use this dresser and bed for years!! So, I've been rearanging different rooms in the house, and making my chore list. I'll keep pictures updated!

Just In Case...

2008-05-29T06:40:00.001-07:00

You really wanted to know! Sorry for the delay.

Cloth Diapers

2008-05-17T11:28:00.000-07:00

As some of my long time friends have mentioned, I've become quite "green." I've converted most of my cleaning products to organic & natural cleaning supplies, I buy a lot of organic fruits and veggies, and we recycle, and try to do things that are better for the enviornment. Cloth diapers are just another way to help the enviorment and our pocket book.
Why choose a cloth diaper? They are cheaper, better for the the baby, better for the environment, and why not give it a try!? At first mention of cloth, I've recieved a lot of strange looks, not to mention comments. However, cloth diapers have come a long way! Sure you can still get the typical "prefold" diapers, (like the ones you see people using as burp rags, or cleaning rags) fold them, pin them, and then cover them; or, you can venture off into modern day cloth and use AIO, (all in ones)pocket diapers, fitted diapers with covers, or bio degradable flushable diapers!
I won't be an "exclusive" cloth only diaper girl. When we travel and what not I'm not going to bring along diapers that I have to bring home. I did find a new diaper that is flushable and biodegradable that I would like to try! These are called gdiapers. They seem easy enough, and they won't sit in our land fills for 10 plus years!
Not only has the cloth diaper market changed but they've creates some great names for them such as Fuzzi Bunz, bum genius, swaddlebees, bummis kissaluvs, and thelist goes on and on.
Will it be harder? Maybe, but I also am fortunate enough to be able to be a work at home mom. My days will consist of taking care of my child, hanging out with my friends and moms with stroller strides, (which I highly encourage every new mom to look into!)and growing my Movin' Mamas buisness. I will mention that having a 100% supportive husband is what makes all of this possible! I am super lucky to have a husband who is encouraging, and involved! Thanks Clay! Just in case I haven't mentioned it in awhile (which I'm sure I have not) I love my life!

One More week!

2008-05-14T16:58:00.001-07:00

We'll know if we're having a boy or girl next Wednesday afternoon! At first I wasn't too anxious about finding out. I've been excited, but now that the ultrasound is schedled...I CAN'T WAIT!! I guess it will make the "it" factor go away, and make the idea of "it" being an actual baby more real. Not to mention there are people out there (and you all know who you are) insist on calling it a he or a she. Although, more seem to lean to the "she" side. So, we'll have to see! And soon, the name game will begin! That should be fun (wink)

Happy Mommies Day!

2008-05-13T07:01:00.000-07:00

Leading up to Mother's Day people continued to ask me if I was looking forward to my first. Honestly, I don't feel like "a mother" just yet. Sure, I have a being growing inside of me, making me look and feel awkward in my own skin, but the act of being a mom seems to be what is celebrated on Mother's Day. My husband, and others around didn't feel quite the same as I. I awoke to my husband handing me a pregnat precious moment. "You're Due For A Lifetime of Happiness" is the title. I LOVE IT! Everytime I passed a Hallmark store I contined to look for one. For those of you who don't know, I collect
Precious Moments. I have since I was a little girl, and since I've been pregnant I've wanted one that would signify this stepping stone in my life. So, Clay did his research and found the perfect mommy-to-be Mother's Day gift!

Brain Shrinkage?

2008-03-19T11:33:00.000-07:00

I think "pregnancy brain" has officially set in! Last night Clay came home to tell me about how a woman's brain shrinks by 20% when they are pregnant. (Not too sure on those numbers, but I'll have to do some research) As we were laughing about it I apparently started the dishwasher (which I had just emptied) and didn't realize it was running until about an hour later!

Our Lil Peanut!

2008-03-13T18:44:00.000-07:00

Today we were able to see our lil peanut! It was so nice knowing that everything is alright, there's a baby, and only one at that! Sorry mom, I know you were crossing your fingers for twins. However, I am estatic that there is only one being growing inside of me! There is a strong heart beat, 170, and we were able to see it move around. It really just wanted to sleep (I guess scheduling our appointment durring nap time wasn't such a good idea.) When given a nudge or two the baby would wiggle around, wave for us, and kick a little. Ahhh...finally it really seems real. There's a baby!

Week 9

2008-03-10T16:26:00.000-07:00

According to ivillage this is what the baby would look like right now! Luck for us we have our first ultrasound on Thursday, so we will be able to see if that is really the case. So far so good. No morning sickness really. I feel a little queasy when I need to eat, but other then that no sickness. Sleepiness and hunger are an entirely different story! I read these books about pregnant women who don't eat because they worry about getting fat. I don't get it all, I never really experienced the NEED to eat like I do now.

Here some info on what is going on with baby this week:
This week, your baby-to-be grows to between 20 and 28 millimeters from crown to rump, or about an inch. Weighing in at one gram, your baby is very active, although you can't feel its movements. He or she now has all the major organs, muscles and nerves. A Doppler may be able to identify the heartbeat. While testes and ovaries are formed, external genitalia appear sexless, which is why it is too early for an ultrasound to reveal gender. Eyelids are beginning to form and the trunk is straightening and elongating.

ivillage @ 7 weeks

2008-02-27T11:08:00.000-08:00

Your baby-to-be is the size of a small bean, measuring in at approximately 9 to 11 millimeters, crown to rump. Dark spots, mark the early formation of the eyes. Pits indicate the formation of nostrils and ears. Your baby's brain is developing rapidly, and limbs and facial characteristics are now forming. Your baby's heart now has a right and left chamber. An ultrasound may be able to detect heart motion. The esophagus and trachea are changing and differentiating into separate tubes, with lungs positioned on either side.

Since then...

2008-02-18T08:05:00.000-08:00

I found out, and then waited until Clay came home. That was the longest 3 hours of my life. I couldn't talk to anyone. I tested again, just to make sure the first one wasn't wrong. (That would have been just my luck!) So he came home, read his card, and discovered he was going to be "Daddy." He was very excited. We were both excited.

I spent the weekend hosting a Doula workshop. It was strange being one of the "pregnant" women in the room. The workshop was amazing! The things I learned make me anxious to start being a doula! However, since I was busy with the workshop all weekend it helped take my mind off wanting to call eveyone and anyone.

I am feeling fine! Tomorrow will be 6 weeks. I'm guessing I will be due around mid- October. I don't go the Dr.s until March 11th, and the first ultra sound will be on March 19th. I'm starting to feel quezzy here and there, and I am extreamly tired. I am taking it easy. I've cancelled my second stroller stride class, so I will only be teaching one class a day now.

There is a part of it that seems very unreal, but I'm getting used to it!

The News

2008-02-07T16:06:00.000-08:00

I was stepping into the shower as I put the PT down where I would be able to see it. Why was this time any different? Not really sure. I have had some symptoms, but after 2 years if anything seemed strange then I had a "symptom." So, until today I ignored it. I saw the double pink lines! I wasn't sure how to feel. My stomach dropped, and I jumped around the house looking for the phone. I had to call Clay. Somehow I needed to convince him to come home early. NO answer.

In the shower I contined to think about the last two years. Who do you tell? How do you tell them? Really, it's only been an hour and if doesn't seem real at all! It is still really early. I'm not even late yet, so this could all really mean nothing in a few days. So, with the excitment comes the fear. Will this baby grow inside of me, or will it leave me before it gets a chance?

Even though I have complete and total mixed emotions right now, I must say this..I can not wait to share the news with Clay. Will it be real then? We're ready to be parents, but month after month it's just something we talk about. Today, we begin discussing everything. It's real. I can finally say, "I'm Pregnant!"

It's done!

2007-11-16T18:02:00.000-08:00

Just wanted to let you all know that things are fine. Dr. Got the endometriosis. Tubes are unblocked, sister brought Mazo Ball soup, and Clay has been wonderful! Meds make me a lil loopy...as the nurse stated "I'm under the influence" for a few days!

Thank you for all the phone calls! I have pictures, but I think I'll leave those off the internet :)

Issues?

2007-11-15T07:19:00.000-08:00

For the most part I've been somewhat tight lipped about the "issues" we deal with on a day to day basis. Issues seems like the wrong word, but I'm not 100% sure what you want to call it.

As most of you know we have been trying to conceive for about 2 years. What to do about it has been our biggest "issue." One of the doctors I was seeing insisted there was nothing to be concerned about, and it would happen. Even after the discovery of a blocked left fallopian tube, I was fine. Then last March I was introduced to the "crazy drug"...Clomid. Oh my Lord! I call it the crazy drug because it did just that. I was emotional, depressed, anxious, my body ached, and I was Lucky enough to experience hot flashes. I won't complain about always being cold anymore! My ears would feel like they were on fire! It was at then that I decided I would not do anything hormonal until someone could tell me why I was not conceiving.

So here we are another doctor, another year. I insisted on being referred to a general OB who dealt with infertility. He is not the "specialist" in town, but IVF is not something I was even half way interested in. So, with in an hour of seeing the new doctor I was being scheduled forlaproscopy surgery. Apparently the blocked tube needs to be unblocked, and why that tube is blocked is something that needs to be discovered.

Tomorrow is the lucky day! I will go to St. Agnes Surgery Center at 8:30, surgery is at 10:00, takes about an hour or so, and I then recovery for 2-3 hours. I have no idea what to expect. I'm anxious, nervous, and excited all at the same time. I never thought I would be "excited" about surgery, but there I have a new found peace. There was reason for our "issues" and hopefully this will take care of it.

Clay will be home with me, so I know I will be in good hands! There has been a lot of questions, so hopefully this will help answer some.

Sierra

2007-09-06T14:37:00.001-07:00

I took my neice, Sierra, to ride with Brittany. I don't think she knew she was in for a lesson, but I think she had fun anyways!

Kauai Part 2

2007-08-15T13:03:00.000-07:00

Tuesday, Clay and I went scuba diving at Tunnels Beach. It was awsome. I had a little trouble equalzing as we went on our first dive, and freaked out in one tunnel, but all and all we did well. We saw turtles being cleaned by fish, and another turtle chilling on the coral. Clay and I were slightly dissapointed that we didn't see the sharks that were out there. Another dive company came up and said there were a few sharks out there. I must say the fish here are beautiful! They all have bright marking and colors. We both would like to branch out and try a shipwreck dive, or maybe even a night dive, but it will have to wait until we are on our next scuba trip.
After tunnels we went to a Luau. Clay made us all try
Poi. I don't know how people eat that stuff. It looks like purple pudding! The food was great, and we were entertained. It rained in the middle of the show, but it was typical Hawaii rain. it pours for a few minutes and then stops.
Thursday we are going to canoe, hike, and then go on a zip line! Clay is debating on golfing on friday at Princeville. He has been able to get one golf trip in at Poipu Bay Golf course. For those of you non golfers our there Poipu bay is where they hold a lot of PGA tours, and princeville is the 7th nices golf course in the nation, and 1st in Hawaii.
We are obvioulsy having a great time!

Aloha

2007-08-13T16:59:00.000-07:00

Just a quick update! So, I know I didn't mention it too much, but I am in Kauai this week. Friday evening we left on ATA airlines for Kauai with my parents and sisters. Friday we stayed at the Aloha Resort. Clay and I went walking on the beach as the sun was rising. It was amazing! Crabs were running in the sand, fisherman were fishing, and fireworks were being set off in the near distance. It was a great start to a Hawaiian vacation. Especially since the flight was a little crazy. Two crying babies (different families) and the kids behind us were kicking our seats and playing with the food trays. Not to mention sitting in a plane for 5.5 hours is already a daunting task for me.
Saturday we headed to the point at Poipu. We headed out to get Puku dogs, and see the town. It is beautiful here! The ocean is clear, although the waves are a little crazy because of Hurrican Flossie, but so far it's far enough away that we aren't threatened yet. Today we went to JoJo's for some shaved ice! YUMMY! Shaved ice is like a snow cone, but there is ice cream on the bottom and the ice is supper fine. It was very very Yummy! Tomorrow Clay and I are going on a two tank scuba dive at Tunnels. Rumor has it we will see lots of turtles, eels, and maybe a shark or two. We will dive in two different spots. Each dive will consist of about 1 hour. Hopefully I'll be able to get some good pics.

Hope all is well at home!

We were in the Newspaper

2007-08-07T07:57:00.000-07:00

As a franchise owner I was contacted by the Fresno Bee. The reporter was doing an article on franchises in Fresno and wanted to interview me. I thought it was great, and I still do, but he failed to mention he was also interviewing the other stroller fitness company intown. It was a shock at first, but after reading the article I was happy with what was said. She has the picture spot, but really people don't always remember the company, but they remember the picture. For those of you who asked for the article, the link is below! Enjoy.

Read Article

Promises, Promises!

2007-07-20T14:18:00.000-07:00

Ok, so I know I said I would blog more! Even though I seem to be on the computer all of the time, I don't seem to get around to blogging much. My life has been consumed by Stroller Strides and I am loving it! My classes have grown, and I love the women I am working with. This week we were on the news, and I was interviewed for an article in the Fresno Bee! So, I am very confident that my buisness will continue to grow. Regarless, I love what I am doing.
Life has been good. Clay will be gone Saturday and Saturday night so I get to catch up on some scrapbooking. I made curtains for our sliding glass door (pics will be posted soon) and now I have to make a valance for the other windows. Tonight we are going to a Johava witness wedding. Should be interesting. I don't know too much about the religion, but I hear the wedding will be slightly different. I am actually looking forward to seeing something different. Besides, I find differnt religious beliefs facinating!
That's all for now!

Lovin Stroller Strides!

2007-06-15T14:16:00.000-07:00

So, I knew when I bought Stroller Strides that it was going to be the kind of buisness that I would like doing. However, I didn't realize how much I was going to love going to "work" every day. The moms that have joined the group are amazing. They are all supportive of each other as well as me. I go to teach classes looking forward to getting to know my moms more, not to mention play with their children. I have to admit; I don't have as memeber as I hoped for right now, but I am sure it won't take too long!

The Blahs!

2007-06-12T07:02:00.000-07:00

I used to have a passion for writing, and that is part of why I started the blog. It wasn't just so that friends and family could keep up with us, but the selfish part of me looked forward to being creative and writing about our lives. However, sometimes when I sit down to write I don't know what to write about. The blahs just come out! My goal is make the blahs go away and start writing again! WARNING?! There may be some entries that are anything but interesting, and others that are just rambling thoughts, but they will be entries none the less. I have to remember that this blog is just as much for me as it is for those who read. Actually, who am I kidding...it's more for me.
There will be some changes soon! A new look, more posts, and for me, a place to ramble!

Say A Lil Prayer..

2007-05-01T07:36:00.000-07:00

The interesting thing about a blog is I find that I most often want to write about good exciting things. However, if things are bothering me, or not so good...I just don't typically like to write. Although don't think that if I haven't updated in awhile that things aren't good! Sometime I just don't have much to say! Today is a little different.
Saturday night I received a phone call telling me that Soren Jacobsen (just turned 3, son of Tim and Tricia) has Leukemia. Good news is, they live in Fresno so they are close to Valley Children's Hospital! He has been diagnosed with A.L.L. which the doctors say is curable; however he is going to spend a little over three years in treatment.
This is a very difficult time for the family! Mom is also 10 weeks pregnant! Please, say a prayer for the Jacobsen family! Soren will be in the hospital for the next week or so while they start treatment. So far he is doing well, but the hard part is just begun. Thank you in advance for your prayers. Only God will be able to give them some peace!!!

The American Dream

2007-04-27T19:59:00.000-07:00

Some say the "American Dream" is to own your home. Others say it is to own your own business. Lucky for me I have both! Not to mention the dream of having a loving husband. I love my life! Today was my last day at Dan Gamel's Health and Raquet club. I was a personal trainer there for about 8 months, but the club sold and all the employees were told we were going to have to re interview if we wanted a job. Since I was already in the process of starting Stroller Strides I decided it was time to focus on my business! So, Movin' Mamas it is!!! Thank you for all of you who put in your input. It was posted in a few places and I received some e-mails, and phone calls.

Movin' What?!

2007-04-22T16:13:00.000-07:00

Ok, for all of you who read this blog and NEVER respond...it is now time to respond! It's real easy, just hit comment at the bottom of the post. YOu don't need a user name, just put your name and comment in and click (other). So...for those of you who don't know I am now a buisness owner! Clay and I made the decision to buy a Stroller Strides franchise! I am super excited and can't wait until we launch the first class!! However, I am also going to do personal training and some other stuff from home. We need a buisness name! We have decided on Movin' (Mamma, Mama, or Momma) This is where you need to vote!!! How do you spell "Mama!"

The Pergola Wedding

2007-04-21T08:26:00.000-07:00

Last weekend we were in Dallas Texas for a family wedding. Clay and I had a great time! It was fun meeting new cousins, talking with ones I had not seen in over 10 years, and hearing about our family history. Jeff and Melissa had a beautiful wedding! It's always nice to see two people who have love and respect for each other. Listening to a couple exchanging vows always reminds me that Love is truly a gift from God. So, I thank God for giving me such a wonderful gift!

See Ya Later!

2007-04-11T08:19:00.000-07:00

Usually I'm good with Goodbyes. Especially when it comes to friends moving, me moving, or whatever because I know with e-mails, blogs, and the good ole telephone, it's real easy to keep in touch and keep friendships going. For example, Jeanice and I talk almost everyday! We don't see each other much, but that doesn't stop us from sharing what is happening in our lives. When we do get to spend some face time together it's just extra special! So, with that said, last night I had to say my "see ya laters" to my good friend Chrissy Black. This wasn't so easy! She's from Kentucky and wanted to go back "Home." Her husband found a GREAT job in Virgina, so off they go! I'm very happy for them, but very sad that my "hang out buddy" won't be around anymore. I know we'll still talk and all that jazz, but I won't be able to cuddle with her newborn in church, or just go to her house to hang out, and she won't be here to help me pick out fabrics, and do all that girly stuff we've enjoyed doing together! However, with all that feeling sorry for myself, I ask that she remain in your prayers. Traveling across the country with a new baby won't be easy. When they arrive in Virgina they will stay in temporary housing until they find a house. So, pray that God provides them the perfect house quickly, not to mention a safe trip!

We're no longer "Homeless Hobo's"

2007-01-31T19:16:00.000-08:00

We should have the keys to our new home tomorrow at around noon! Let the painting begin!

It only took a month!

2007-01-26T20:41:00.000-08:00

It only took a month but here are some picutres of my newest neice Lilly! It only took a month for me to get the just born pics up, but here are a few.

Morning at the Hastings

2007-01-06T10:52:00.000-08:00

Clay made breakfast for everyone this morning. (Remember we are living with friends) One of our favorite weekend traditions is to make fresh juice. Blake, the youngest Hastings boy, decided to help "Uncle Clay" make some fresh OJ! At first he was hesitant putting the oranges in the tunnel, but soon decided it was lots of fun. It was very cute! Well at least I thought so...push play to see the slide show!

Martinez Baby

2006-12-28T21:46:00.000-08:00

Lillianna Nicole (I think that is how they are going to spell it) came into this world. She was born at around 7:00 pm and she weighed about 7lbs. It's exiting to be around for the birth of my neice. I love them all, but I had to win the others over...so this one is my neice from the start! Pictures are soon to come.

Merry Christmas

2006-12-22T15:43:00.000-08:00

My wish for this Christmas is that everyone take some time to reflect on the holiday. Gifts are fun, but is it really what the season is about? Our Church put together a service everyone can do in their home. I thought it was quite neat! So please take a moment to reflect on how God had touched your life this year! So as you're reminding your children to say "Thank you" for the horrible gift they may have received from "Aunt Birtha," or you're sitting around the table with family...just take a moment to reflect. Merry Christmas! (none of that "Happy Holidays" cr*p!)
The Well Community Family Christmas Service

Bitter Sweet

2006-12-13T09:38:00.000-08:00

Leaving my lil house on Katy Lane was an interesting experience. Sunday was spent moving everything. I'm so exited that we get to do it all over again in 2 months! (Not really) However, Monday I went back to all of the cleaning, and touch up the paint where we took screws out of the walls. Touching up the paint made me sad to leave. I felt as though I was leaving a peice of me behind. My style, my work, my efforts, and well it was my home. Cleaning everything gave me some sick twisted pleasure. It wasn't until I was mopping my way out of the kitchen that I felt really weird. You would think that I had never moved before!
Driving away I realized how lucky I was. I was driving to house full of people who were willing to rearange their lives and welcome us into their home. How blessed are we? Really, even being able to buy the home we are waiting for is amazing. Clay and I have so much to be thankful for, and we are both exited to get into our new house. I just had a slight touch of separation anxiouty. I'm sure it will pass as I begin to decorate the new house, and make a new home for Clay and I.

Things I forgot about packing!

2006-12-06T17:42:00.000-08:00

How is that when you are supposed to pack everything, that everything ends up all over the house!

You don't realize just how much STUFF you have until you've been packing it for days on end...not to mention you never have just the right size box.

Once you pack something you haven't used in 6 months you finally find a use for it.

So basically...my house is a mess, I can't find the things that I seem to need at this exact moment..my body aches all over, and I am exhausted!!!

Isn't moving fun?!

Moving On

2006-11-30T17:05:00.000-08:00

I met the soon to be new owners of our house today! I'm not so sad to leave it behind anymore. They were great. A couple about our age having their first baby! They were really excited about moving in and getting settled. So, it made me feel not so bad to leave my lil house that I put so much work into!!! We've already moved our first load over to the Hastings, where we are storing all of our stuff. SO...now I'm excited that we are moving on. On that note, our tentative move in date for the house is Feb. 7th. It's looking good.

It's Sold

2006-11-22T07:48:00.000-08:00

It's official we have a signed offer on the house! This means the house is sold and we will be moving in about 3 weeks. The people buying the house wanted a quick escrow, so they requested that we be out of the house by December 15th! I am assuming they want a home for Christmas...this means we'll be homeless for Christmas. Well, not really, we will be moving in with our friends, Austin and Shelly, and staying there until our house is done. It's so nice knowing that we don't have to worry about two house payments anymore! What a great way to start off the holidays!

We Made It

2006-11-21T06:49:00.000-08:00

Well we made it to Santa Fe! The train wasn't so bad. Sleeping wasn't so fun, but I did sleep. We traveled with friends so that made it nice. In the morning we were able to eat breakfast in the dinning car, and play cards. We were in Santa Fe by 1:00! Granted it's not as easy as flying, but sure beats driving! Well Peggy and I are off to do some shopping today, and Clay is going to go golfing with his dad. After a good nights sleep ( I was in bed by 7) and some Pumpkin Spice coffee....We're ready to go!

Santa Fe Thanksgiving

2006-11-19T10:54:00.000-08:00

Tonight we leave for Santa Fe! We'll be driving to the train station in Barstow and then traveling by train for about 14 hours. I hear it's a great way to travel, and it was when we went to Santa Rosa, but I have to admit I'm lightly nervous. We all know I need my sleep! Anyways, we'll be in Santa Fe for a week and celebrating Thanksgiving with my in-laws. It should be a lot of fun. Will keep you posted on the trip! (I know I haven't posted too much, but I figured I didn't need to post new house info everyday..it seems to be consuming my NEWS) Happy Thanksgiving Everyone!

Framed and Ready

2006-10-23T11:33:00.000-07:00

So, I know it's been awhile since I've really updated "our lives." So, first I'll update on the biggest part of our lives....our house! First, the house we live in now is still on the market. We've had a few looks, but not too sure how serious anyone is just yet. We've dropped our price and feel it's now priced to sell! Please pray that is sells soon! We were told that our house has the potential to be finished at the end of January! However, we all know how the building process goes, so we'll still sit tight and watch the building process.
Yesturday we went to the house to show a few friends. Everyone added their own touch to the house! Sharpie markers were out and friends left comments all over the house. Clay and I are going to pick out some scripture to write on the frame of the house. So, if anyone has anything they would like to add...let me know, and I'll write it for you in spirit!

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Halloween at Disney

2006-10-04T13:23:00.000-07:00

So we had a blast at Disneyland. It was the first year they decorated for Halloween, so we are part of Disney history. We were able to go on everything we wanted and we even waited for Fantasmic. Waiting wasn't so much fun! Kids were crying, the floor was hard, and the parents who had the crying children were annoyed as well as annoying. The private party at California Adventure was great! The pier was open and we were able to play games, ride rides, and watch the dancers dance. Clay even won me a little animal! It was "an amazing" basketball shot. As he went to make a basket, the ball hit the rim and ended up in the basket next to him. I missed the shot so Clay was quite sad that his amazing shot wasn't seen. The street was lined with food, deserts, beer and wine carts, and other soft drink stations. It had to be one of my most memorable Disney experiences.

New York Life Executive Council Trip

2006-09-28T14:02:00.000-07:00

We've been in Southern California for a few days now. It's been great! I was able to spend some quality time with family and friends! It was extra nice spending the day with "My Papa" on his birthday. I've been able to take Clay to the Brea Mall, Downtown Disney, and there is more to come. Tonight we will be going to Disney's California Adventure. NY Life has rented the park out for the night, so we will only have to share with ohters in the NYLIC family. Friday we will experience Disneyland together. Clay hasn't been there in 13 years, so it will be great! I've really enjoyed being here and learning more about NY Life. I'm extreamly impressed with the empasis they put on family. So, I'll fill everyone in when we get back!

Fresno State Bulldogs..

2006-09-01T07:41:00.000-07:00

There is a new exitment in the Blanton house, it's called Fresno State Football. Last year Clay watched the games! Some games we'd have "football parties." Some were just DVR worthy, and I am sure Clay went to one or two of the games. This year it's a little different. At about 7 am I heard my husband concerned about his dress attire. For those of you who know Clay, he's not one to ever worry about what he is going to wear. However, this morning, a dark cloud hovered when he realized he no longer had a red polo shirt. How was he going to support his team?! Did you catch it was 7 am?! I don't think the team will come after him for not wearing his polo, considering we have season tickets, with 6 other couples, for all the games. We will be sitting on the 50 yard line about 20 rows back...is that not support enough! This means our schedule has been focused around Fresno States home games. It should be fun. For those of you who are not from Fresno...these games are the big highlights of the year. Everyone in Fresno seems very supportive of the school and the Athletics. Tailgating and football...should be fun

Back in the Day...

2006-08-28T15:33:00.000-07:00

This weekend we went to an 80's birthday party. Considering the 80's, to me, was the first 10 years of my life....finding the right outfit was a challenge. I do remember poofy bangs, leggings, long sirts, and t-shirt clips! So, we improvised. I did however learn something new about my husband. He still has his ear pierced! We had talked about a time in his life when he used to wear an earing, but it was another thing seeing him come out of the bedroom with one of my earings in his ear.
I have to hand it to the Norfleets. They sure can throw a good party.

House Update..

2006-08-24T10:18:00.004-07:00

They seem to be moving right along!

Officially Listed

2006-08-15T21:17:00.000-07:00

Tonight we signed the papers. Our lil house on Katy Lane is on the market. I have to admit the thought of strangers going through my house drives me nuts! Opening my closets and what not. This means everything has to be clean 24-7. So after a day of steam cleaning the carpets and dusting off the ceiling fans I think I can honestly say I'm ready. It just means we're step closer to moving!

Lets be Original!

2006-08-07T18:55:00.000-07:00

Sometimes I have to wonder what people are thinking when they start following me around stores like Home Depot and Albertsons! I'm clearly not the famous actress Renee Zelweger! I would try to argue that I don't look like her, but everyone else seems to think so. It's annoying already. When I was bartending it was oftern asked, "has anyone ever told you that you look like Renee?" Then there was the fish lady at Alberton's. She would seriously shake around me! Chill woman, I'm not her. It was really crazy when she started telling everyone around me that I was their "Hollywood star." Now, I can't seem to escape it. The other day we were at Home depot. There was a strange man that kept watching me look for closet doors. It creeped me out a little bit, but I ignored him. When were standing in the check out his wife let it be known that he thought "I looked like...." I finished her sentence for her. Is there a way I can make money on this?

Breaking Ground

2006-08-01T08:39:00.000-07:00

Last night we went to our "dirt." We have officially broken ground. The area is looking great. We have streets now, and the new models should open this weekend. We can't wait to see some of the upgrades they have done from the original model.

All Aboard!

2006-07-31T16:37:00.000-07:00

Last weekend we escaped the Fresno heat! We traveled north to see parents in Santa Rosa. This trip was much different from all the other, we took the Train! I was a little nervous at first because we were going to be on the train for a little over 3 hours and then a bus! Never did I think I would travel willingly by bus! To my surprise, it was awsome! We played cribbage, talked, walked around a little, had a snack in the dinning car, and just really enjoyed our time together. Now, we had other motives in taking this trip. We are going to travel to Santa Fe in November over Thanksgiving. So, the train trip is 14 hours from Barstow! I wasn't sure if I'd be up for it, but now I think it will be ok. So, we're helping the enviornment and saving money! (Did I mention the train is cheap! It would have cost us the same amount in Gas to drive to Santa Rosa.) So, if you're looking for a new way to travel, I highly suggest looking into the train.

Finances or Enviornment?

2006-07-20T19:24:00.000-07:00

So now we've been laughed at and called crazy, but we think we're being wise. It seems as though Clay and I have become much more concerned about our enviornment and the world in which we hope to raise children in. It started with some documentaries on Dateline, or 20/20 and it soon escalated to us going to the movies to see An Inconvenient Truth. So first, let me remind everyone that I really don't enjoy going to the movies. Usually it's cold, uncomfortable, and there's someone just being really annoying. So, I opt to wait until we can order it from Netflix. This movie was great! I could have done with out some of the political babble Gore shared, but for the most part I felt it was very educational! I do beleive that it should be shared with everyone. The real question is, what will the people actually do with it? Let's be honest, it's real easy to recycle...do you do it? This brings me to us being "crazy" part. We want to buy a scooter! Not a little rinky dink one, but one that actually has some get up and go. Why? First of all, we want to help the enviornment. That doesn't mean I'm giving up my SUV but we will share it! We'll use the scooter for getting to point A to point B. I took one for a ride today and it was lots of fun! Now, for those of you who know my husband....we are also doing this for financial reasons. They are cheap! They get anywhere from 80-100 miles to the gallon, and Clay figured out after 20 years the money saved will pay for our kids college. Don't worry! That is not how we are funding our children's college accounts, but he seemed to think that was cool! So, I'll let you know how the scooter shopping is going. In the mean time...visit An Inconvenient Truth. It doesn't hurt to see what little changes will make a world of difference.

"Just Borrowed"

2006-07-09T12:59:00.000-07:00

We had a great time in Havasu. We decided to name the boat "Just Borrowed." When I say "we" I mean my father-in-law and I. Basically...they are just borrowing the boat from Clay and I! (I can pretend anyways!) I loved being back on the water! It was also really nice spending time with everyone! Austin (our 13 year old nephew) hung out with Janelle most of the time. Hannah (our 3 year old neice) was just a cuddle bug! It's a shame we don't live closer.

Happy 4th of July!

2006-06-30T11:24:00.000-07:00

We're leaving for Havasu today! That means I actually get to ski again for the first time in two or three years! Well with the exeption of going wake boarding with the Glancy's for the day! So, for everyone else, have a safe and Happy 4th!

Granite, Cabinets, etc...

2006-06-22T11:13:00.000-07:00

It's been so much fun picking out all of our options. After spending a total of 6 hours at the design center, we finished designing the inside of our house! We also changed our lot. Our new lot is still on a corner, but now we have an almost 40 foot backyard, vs. 20 feet! (To see pictures click on the links)

Something to Ponder

2006-06-10T09:58:00.000-07:00

It's not too often that I really like the forwards that people love to send. As a matter of fact I rarely read half of them! However, when I do read a good one I like to share it, and figure that only 1 or 2 of the people I send it to will actually read it. This morning I was sent one that I feel is worth reading! Thanks Stephanie!

Beautifully stated
As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken. You'll fight with your best friend. You'll blame a new love for things an old one did. You'll cry because time is passing too fast, and you'll eventually lose someone you love. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, and love like you've never been hurt because every sixty seconds you spend upset is a minute of happiness you'll never get back.

Don't be afraid that your life will end,
be afraid that it will never begin.
~anonymous~

Thank God it's Over!

2006-06-08T14:43:00.000-07:00

Today was my last day at Pershing Continuation School! It was a great learning experience. I learned I really enjoy teaching, but I don't think I'll ever take a long term sub position again. I enjoy Jr. High, but I can't teach Math or History! I think I'll stick with English or Science. And, I think I really really enjoy "just being a sub." With that said...it's time to enjoy summer and get the house ready to sell!

Bass Lake

2006-06-06T09:40:00.000-07:00

Clay took me on a surprise trip to Bass Lake for our 1 Year Anniversary. We can't wait to go back with family and friends. Ski season is here and both of us are anxious to get on the water. Although, we discussed being there with friends, we had a great time with just the two of us!

Introducing Additions to the Blanton Household

2006-05-29T20:02:00.000-07:00

It's been an action packed weekend! Thursday night my parents, The Wards, and Matt all came in from out of town to go white water rafting! It's been somewhat of a tradition. The Friday and Saturday of Memorial day weekend Clay's friends get a group of 75 people to go The King's River . Check it out, if you want to go next year, just let me know!
OH, and no it's not a joke! There are two new members of the Blanton house hold. One is my lil sis's dog! The other is Janelle, my lil sister! We're glad to have here in Fresno! Any bets on how long it will take my mom to give in and start CONSIDERING Fresno?

No More Waiting

2006-05-21T21:11:00.000-07:00

It's official! Saturday morning we put our reservation down for lot 125! No, we didn't end up with our first choice, but after walking the lot, we are just as happy with our second choice. We still don't have anyone behind us, and we're on a corner of a cul-de-sac soo...we only have to share a fence with one neighbor! So, the process begins. We will be moving to Harlan Ranch in Clovis. I guess #49 wasn't so bad after all.

Number 49...

2006-05-16T15:55:00.000-07:00

I've realized Clay and I like to keep things exiting, so we're looking a new house! We put a bid in on a lot in Clovis. We're super exited! The house is going to be in Harlan Ranch, a master-planned community. The lot we are the list for has a park across the street, and no one directly behind us. The key words here, are we are on a list! 49th to be exact! So we are praying about it. The rest is up to God.

Easter Fun!

2006-04-22T07:24:00.000-07:00

Easter was great! We were able to spend Saturday at Roeding Park! This park has a little bit of eveything. We played tennis, the kids played on the playground, and some played softball. There is even a zoo! We had a BBQ, and then went to Storyland. (The kids area next to the zoo) I was fascinated by our "spring" surroundings. Little Chicks were learning to swim, Geese were sitting on their eggs, and some were even hatching! It was great! I think my mom had the most fun practicing to be a grandma. She just loved on my niece all day long...

Not so bad!

2006-04-11T11:07:00.000-07:00

So, we realized sleeping in the Trail Blazer isn't so comfortable! I don't think we'll doing that again! Putting up a tent might be a little work, but well worth it! We had a great time. We went on a long hike up and down the hills, Clay went on a few rides, and we were in great company! We're looking forward to doing it again..just next time, we'll have different sleeping arrangments!

A Weekend of Wonder...

2006-04-08T07:47:00.000-07:00

So this weekend we are going to the desert to go motorcycle riding! This should be interesting since I don't particularly like motorcycle! However it should be fun watching my niece and nephew ride. Not to mention my husband! Did I mention we will be sleeping in the trail blazer for 2 nights!

When I Grow Up I Want To Be A.....

2006-03-29T16:56:00.000-08:00

I am now teaching 7th grade full time! I took on a seventh grade opportunity class at Pershing school. The kids have been great, for the most part, and I'm really enjoying myself. I have the kids for all 4 periods, so I'm teaching a little bit of everything. As suspected, Science is my favorite, with English as a close second...Hmmm...maybe, just maybe, I've figured out what I want to be when I grow up!

These are the Moments...

2006-03-25T21:16:00.000-08:00

The wedding was beautiful, and so was the bride! We had a great time! The rehearsal dinner was at Dave-n-Busters...after a few drinks "mom" was fortunate enough to hear about the things you just tell moms when you are in high school! It was great. Danny, the groom, was amazing. He continues to surprise her and make her smile...meanwhile the rest of the wedding party seem to be in tears over and over again. Well, in all fairness, half of the time we were full of tears because of the sappy love stuff...the half of the time we couldn't stop laughing. As I stated in my Matron of Honor speech...these are moments I'll never forget.

Jeanice

2006-03-15T08:03:00.000-08:00

We're off again! This weekend is Jeanice's wedding. For those of you who don't know Jeanice...she has been one of my closest friends since high school! Danny, the groom, is a wonderful man! I couldn't have hand picked a better person for her. So, I leave today to do the girlie stuff...pick up my bridesmaid dress, get my nails done, etc. etc. Clay will meet me on Saturday to enjoy the day! So, another chapter in our lives has been completed, now another one begins...

I'm Back

2006-03-09T16:23:00.000-08:00

I'm back from the cruise! I had a great time, but missed Clay. He seemed to enjoy his nights with the boys, but I think we're both glad I'm home! I realized on this trip that I can no longer stay out until 3:30 a.m. for three nights in a row, and continue to function like a normal human being the next few days. Well, I don't think I ever could, but now I know I can't! I don't think I'll go on another vacation with out him again...at least not for a long time.

Home Alone

2006-03-01T07:53:00.000-08:00

This weekend will be a new first for Clay and I. I am going on Cruise for Jeanice's Bachlorette Party. We're going to Ensenada on Royal Caribbean's Monarch of the Sea It should be lots of fun! Well.... we've spent a few nights away from each other before but never 4, and certainly not 4 nights where we can't call and say good-night. So, the boys are having a poker night here on Saturday. It should be a fun weekend!

I'm Old!

2006-02-22T09:14:00.000-08:00

Happy Birthday to Me...Happy Birthday to Me...

Ok, so you know you're getting old when..
* You want to go bed before 10!
* Wake up before 8 just because..
* You start looking at your age thinking "I can't possibly be that old!"

Example...Clay and I went to San Francisco and Santa Rosa for the weekend. We sat down after dinner to watch Wedding Crashers (Great Movie) and I fell asleep in the first 5 minutes. Yah, it was only 8:00 p.m.

Happy Birthday to All of Us!!!

2006-02-16T21:03:00.000-08:00

February seems to be a busy month for birthdays! Last weekend we had a party and included all of the February babies! Well most of them anyways. We had a great time. We finally lit the firepit and enjoyed the backyard. Clay put in a horse shoe pit, but once the sun went down it was somewhat pointless. So, Happy Birthday Warren, Clay, Tricia, Parker, Jessica, Pat, Alicynne....oh yah and ME!

Leaving Work with a SMILE!

2006-01-26T18:59:00.000-08:00

So I decided to start substitute teaching again. Today I worked at a continuation high school and loved it! The kids were great and really just needed a little extra attention. The principal asked me if I was interested in a job, but since don't have my credential he couldn't hire me. At least not yet anyways! It's nice to leave "work" with a smile!

Sudoku

2006-01-19T10:08:00.000-08:00

OK, so for all of you who know what this crazy game is..then you might understand my frusteration. For Christmas, Clay recieved a book of puzzles called SUDOKU. I've been working my way through the puzzles and I find it surprisingly relaxing! Anyways, so I started doing the Fresno Bee daily SUDOKU. It's been fine, but each day it ups a level. So yesturday was challenging but I made it through. today I just staired and pretended to do the puzzle! Only 1 real for sure number went on the page. After about 45 minutes...I said forget it! It wasn't so relaxing anymore. I think I'll stick the easy ones.

It's a New Year

2006-01-01T20:16:00.000-08:00

Wow, last night I had time to really reflect on this year and how wonderful it has been.
However, before I get into that...let me just say Chrismas was Wonderful!

Friday 12/23 I was able to make gingerbread houses with my neices and nephew. I had no clue what I was doing but we had a great time. (Pictures to come)
Saturday my mom and dad drove in from Santa Rosa. They even brought the dogs! I made us Clam Chowder and a Ceasar salad. It made for a nice quiet night. (Exept I was in the kitchen all day and night)
Sunday morning Janelle surprised us all and we were all together Christmas morning. As my mom likes to say, her "hear was full."
Clay's mom, stepdad, and stepbrother joined us for breakfast. The 10 of us had a great time.
Dinner was at 5:30. My livingroom was transformed and we had 25 people around our Christmas table. It was fabulous!

So with that said. Clay and I spent our first Christmas together and we had a great time. Tuesday we had his Dad and Peggy over and we were able to spend time with them as well. So aside from Christmas...we shared many firsts this year. We can't wait to see what next year will bring.

For those of you far away...we miss you lots, and we loved all our Christmas Cards...Do I have to take those down too?

No more Martha

2005-12-20T14:31:00.000-08:00

So the whole Theory of me being "Martha Stewart" was thrown out the window! Clay came home from work yesterday with the counters and mixer covered in flower. The cookies I was trying to make never flattened out, and they taste funny! The bread...well I will leave that one alone...lets just say I was following the wrong recipe and then tried to fix it! So I might be a great cook...but I can't bake!

It's begining to look a lot like Chrismas!

2005-12-04T21:07:00.000-08:00

So today we put Chrismas lights up on the house! Clay was so exited when he was done putting the lights up for the second time...he put them on wrong the first time and couldn't plug them into an outlet! While he was busy with the outside, I put the tree together. Ahh...it's my first tree since I haven't lived at home. Every other year I was going to be at home on Christmas day. It's like I'm a little kid all over again.

Happy Thanksgiving

2005-11-23T10:38:00.000-08:00

So this is the time of year that most people reflect on what they are thankful for. So even though I reflect on these things almost everyday now, I thought I would a share a few thanks and a few thoughts!

I'm Thankful that my little sisters have grown up and have now become my friends and not just my siblings. Brittany and Janelle...I love you both very much!
I'm thankful that Clay and I have been brought together. I used to think that finding a man to love and trust would be difficult..I never knew finding my soul mate would be so easy! I love you very much, and I thank God for you every day!
I'd like to thank our parents...with out you we would not be the people we are today.
To all our family and friends....I am thankful that there are people in my life whom I can talk to once in awhile and feel like I'm at home, people I can talk to everyday...and feel like you are right with me....I'm thankful that God has blessed me with people who are true and warm at heart.

Happy Thanksgiving everyone!

Sleep, Sleep and NO SLEEP!

2005-11-20T23:00:00.000-08:00

So, it's another sleepless night here in the Blanton household. You'd almost think we had children by that statement, but no, it's just me...(KATIE!) For the last two weeks or so I've been on this restless sleep thing..Can't explain it, but all I know is I'm tired! Why am I tired and still no sleep...Don't know, but really it's annoying already!! Not to mention the tossing and turning drives Clay a little bonkers...he even told me I could wear sweats to bed if that was going to help me sleep. Now we know we are both sleep deprived.

Blessings of Life

2005-11-14T14:53:00.000-08:00

Sometimes I just think about how lucky I am to be married to a man that makes me smile. A man that loves me, that talks with me, that shares dreams and goals with me, but more importantly a man that I love loving every day. So, I just wanted to share with the world that I feel blessed everyday! On that note, our wedding pictures our now online! (Click on our pictures)