Thursday, November 03, 2005

Some Food for Thought!

17 Things you should never do in marriage
  1. Raise your voice or yell
  2. beat or shake your spouse
  3. name call
  4. Walk away when hurt or angry
  5. Give the silent treatment
  6. Bring up old fights
  7. Give reasons why you hurt the other person
  8. Place blame on the other person for an argument
  9. interrupt each other
  10. Use Kids to finish a debate
  11. Argue inform of the kids
  12. Talk negatively about the inlaws
  13. Get sarcastic in an argument
  14. Tell everyone about an argument
  15. Punish each other with sex
  16. Not listen with body language
  17. Don't harden yourself

This was given at our couples study at church. I found it interesting. We discussed Conflict and how to deal with it. Lucky for us, we really don't fight! So, it's stuff to keep in mind so that when that day comes we will be able to deal with it! How many of these things do you do?

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